I’m not a big one for resolutions, as I know too well, from my own experience and from working as a coach, that changing one’s habits is a difficult proposition. (Especially when it involves things like eating, sleep, or exercise.)
However, I like doing things that are new — any time of year — and January is as good a month as any to add the fun of a new project or pursuit to a stretch of weeks that can otherwise feel like a slog in the Northern Hemisphere.
And so it is that I’ve started a couple of new groups to share with my friends, and as a way to make new friends. One is the latest incarnation of the Stitch-and-Bitch groups that I end up forming wherever I live, so I can hang out with (and enable the yarn habits of) other knitters. The other is something I’m thinking of as the Sunday Lunch Club.
Sunday can often feel like a loose end, especially in Spain, where it’s generally the day to have lunch with your family (parents, grandparents, et al.). For those of us without extended family close by, it’s nice to have Sunday lunch with our “selected family” (i.e., friends) — I’m proposing finding one Sunday a month, with hosting/cooking duties to rotate among those of us who want to participate. But nothing more formal than that, so it doesn’t feel like a “have to.” (Have to + Sunday doesn’t compute for me.)
What new pursuits and projects are you adding to your life for 2013? Please share in the comments.

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January 15, 2013 at 5:56 am
neki desu
booohooohoo i don’t live close by.
we could skype on saturday evening??
i’m into adding quality to my life by getting rid of everything bothersome,
January 15, 2013 at 4:06 pm
rubiatonta
Yup, I can look for you on Skype Saturday — and maybe we can Skype you in for a virtual s&b…
January 15, 2013 at 11:34 am
materfamilias
I’m not big on New Year’s resolutions either, but I do have a few new things I’ll try this year. In my last post, I nervously announced that I’ve registered for a marathon (hoping the public announcement doesn’t jinx my efforts!) I’m also planning to learn to knit Continental so that I can move to two-handed Fair Isle knitting rather than my slower right-hand only method. And I’m planning to do more drawing and painting, something I tried for the first time last year. Now if someone would just send me the necessary hours for the new projects . . .
Your Sunday Lunch Club is a wonderful project and I hope you’ll blog about it. Happy New Year!
January 15, 2013 at 4:09 pm
rubiatonta
I’ve never managed to learn to do Fair Isle two-handed, but I do OK with one hand. And you’ve reminded me to post an FO tomorrow.
Know what you mean about finding the time — I’d like to take drawing classes again, and I’ve set an intention to return to my guitar lessons, but who knows when!